How to Coach Resistance
Tools to supplement ideas introduced in How to Coach Resistance and brought to life in Coaching Resistance Workshop
How to Coach Resistance Resources
Use these resources to reflect on what you’re reading, put the ideas into practice, and continue building your skills.
Study the Book
A companion guide with reflection questions and discussion prompts for every chapter.
Expanded Book Study Guide (Individual Edition)
Additional reflection activities, application exercises, and opportunities to deepen your learning.
Expanded Book Study Guide (Group Edition)
Facilitator notes, discussion protocols, agendas, and activities for teams and book study groups.
See Coaching Resistance in Action
Inside the Conversation: Coaching Resistance
Watch Elena coach through common resistance scenarios and see the concepts from How to Coach Resistance in action. In each recorded role play, Elena coaches through a resistance challenge and then pulls back the curtain to share the thinking, observations, and decisions behind her coaching moves.
Explore Resources by Chapter
Looking for a tool Elena mentions in the book, a related podcast episode, or another way to keep learning? Find everything organized by chapter below.
Introduction
Tools & Resources from the Book
Chapter 1: Understanding Resistance
Tools & Resources from the Book
Listen & Learn
- Episode 149: Coaching Resistance: Part 3—Coaching Demonstration
- Episode 238: Core Emotions Tool in Action
- Episode 200: Coaching Core Human Needs (Demonstration)
- Episode 259: Coaching Limiting Beliefs (Demonstration)
Continue Your Learning
- Arise: The Art of Transformational Coaching
- Coaching Emotions Toolkit (Digital Download and Skill Session)
- Building Trust With Your Clients (Mini Workshop)
- Core Human Needs (Skill Session)
Chapter 2: The Inner Work of the Coach
Tools & Resources from the Book
- Coach Trigger Reflection Tool
- How Do You Respond to Resistance? A Self-Assessment for Coaches, Facilitators, and Leaders
- Figure 2.1: The Dispositions of a Transformational Coach
Listen & Learn
- Episode 180: Improve Your Communication with Non-Verbals
- Episode 181: Learn from Your Coachee's Non-Verbals
- Episode 182: Less Talk, More Impact
- Episode 183: A Confidence-Building Sentence Stem
- Episode 184: A Question to Surface Underlying Beliefs
- Episode 185: A Question to Unlock Our Power
- Episode 244: Turn Your Triggers into Tools
Continue Your Learning
Chapter 3: Coaching Emotions
Tools & Resources from the Book
Listen & Learn
- Episode 277: You Want to Coach Emotions? Start Here
- Episode 278: How to ACE Your Coaching Conversations
- Episode 279: What to Do When a Team Member Breaks Down
- Episode 280: Coaching Through the Low Points
- Episode 222: Coaching an Emotions-Resistant Client (Demonstration)
- Episode 262: How to Coach BIG Emotions
Continue Your Learning
Chapter 4: Coaching Behaviors
Tools & Resources from the Book
Listen & Learn
- Episode 289: Mind the Gap
- Episode 208: How to Coach Behaviors: The Gaps Framework
- Episode 261: Where Do I Start? They Have 101 Gaps!
- Episode 220: Using the Gaps Framework (Demonstration)
Continue Your Learning
- Planning for a Coaching Conversation (Skill Session)
- Coaching Behaviors with the Gaps Framework (Mini Workshop)
- The Conversation You've Been Avoiding (Mini Workshop)
- The Art of Transformational Coaching Workshop
Chapter 5: Power, Systems, and Context
Tools & Resources from the Book
Listen & Learn
- Episode 290: Spheres of Influence
- Episode 285: How Power Shows Up in the Room
- Episode 257: Using the Wheel of Privilege and Power (Demonstration)
Continue Your Learning
- Wheel of Privilege and Power (Skill Session)
- Coaching for Equity Workshop
- Coaching When You're the Boss (Mini Workshop)
- Implementing a Coaching Program
Chapter 6: Resistance in Professional Learning
Tools & Resources from the Book
- Resistance in Professional Learning: A Mini Phrasebook for Facilitators
- Figure 6.1: The Three Moves
- The Three Moves Framework
- Navigating Resistance in the Moment (Free Skill Session)
Listen & Learn
- Episode 281: The Lie We've Been Told About PD
- Episode 282: What Makes PD Transformational
- Episode 283: The Conditions for Learning Checklist
- Episode 284: Designing for Emotions, Not Just Content
- Episode 286: Design for Dignity
Continue Your Learning
- Facilitation Studio
- PD That Changes Practice Workshop
- Virtual Facilitation Workshop
- How to Answer a Question (Mini Workshop)
- Respond When the Room Gets Tense (Mini Workshop)
- Community Agreements You Actually Use (Mini Workshop)
Chapter 7: Resilience
Tools & Resources from the Book
Listen & Learn
- Cultivating Compassion for Difficult People
- Lovingkindness Meditation
- Equanimity Meditation
- Relaxation Meditation
- Episode 275: When Energy Is Low and Needs Are High
- Episode 280: Coaching Through the Low Points
- Episode 291: Strength-Based Coaching
- Episode 294: The Year Didn't Go as Planned—Now What?
Continue Your Learning